A 34-year-old congenital heart disease patient fulfills his mother's dream in Kunhe
Source: Kunhe Assisted Pregnancy Center Number of reads: 16 Release time: 2025-06-28 20:55:17
I am a congenital heart disease patient. I had a heart repair surgery when I was a child. Now I look no different from a normal person. After a year of marriage, we started preparing for pregnancy, but during the physical examination, the doctor issued me a notice that it was not suitable for pregnancy. However, I don’t have the courage of Wu Ying. I can even give up my life in order to give birth. But as a woman, I also want to go through the process from ten months of pregnancy to childbirth. I have always been in conflict. After all, my husband loves me so much. Although he has never forced me to give birth and always comfort me, this has deepened my guilt towards him.
We originally planned to have a baby through IVF, but the doctor's words "IVF" also requires transplantation to the mother's uterus. This depends on your heart's ability to withstand it. It is not recommended to take the risk and extinguish this hope directly. My husband and I filed for divorce because I felt that we should not deprive him of the right to be a father. Probably true love. My husband proposed to give birth to a child through third-party assisted reproduction, which means using my husband's sperm and my eggs to cultivate them in vitro, and then transplant them into the body of the volunteer mother. However, this cost is much more expensive than the average IVF cost. I didn't expect that my husband loved me so much, and at that moment I really felt that he had married the right person.
In the following days, we spent a week looking for relevant information about third-party assisted reproductive institutions, and also saw a lot of negative news on the Internet. We couldn't help but be afraid of being deceived. But later I found that my friends who had two best friends around me also gave birth to children in this way, so my heart was a little relaxed. After all, people have this kind of heart. Seeing someone next to them doing this, it feels like a normal behavior.
Because we are relatively close to Shanghai, we prioritize third-party assisted reproductive institutions in Shanghai. After a week of information search and comparison, we consulted Kunhe Medical and two other institutions, and we will not list them one by one here. However, after the field investigation, we directly passed the other two because I wanted to complete the entire operation in one place. In Kunhe, I can arrange for a specialist to diagnose and evaluate whether it is suitable for egg retrieval surgery for my heart disease. Not only that, they also found a professional doctor of reproductive medicine to formulate ejaculation promotion and test tube baby plans.
Because I had to evaluate my heart tolerance, the doctor arranged for me cardiac assisted examinations in electrocardiogram, dynamic electrocardiogram, exercise electrocardiogram, cardiac ultrasound, etc., and the examination results still maintained the original trial and were not suitable for me to get pregnant. Fortunately, in addition to the poor heart, my ovarian function is still good, and after medication, I can also achieve the egg retrieval index.
After a month of physical conditioning, all my indicators were normal. Next, I was waiting patiently for the arrival of my period. On May 14, the second day after my period, we came to the reception desk of Kunhe Medical. The doctor prescribed some ovulation-inducing drugs for me based on my situation, and then arranged a medical consultant to guide how to use these drugs.
The egg retrieval was basically not very painful, and there was no anesthesia. It was not very long. 16 were taken, 8 were mature, and 6 were screened. Among them, 3 embryos passed the PGS health screening, namely 2 men and 1 woman. On the other hand, the center also arranged for my husband to extract sperm.
After I got home, I was a little nervous. Why do many people get 10 or 20 eggs at any time on the forum? Will it be too small if I only got 8 eggs this time? Later, I asked Dr. Kun and Dr. Li that the quality of eggs that many people take is not necessarily very good, and there are not many people who cultivate embryos. Normal people can only discharge one egg in a month. If too many eggs are discharged at the same time, it will only cause a great burden on the body and will not guarantee the quality of the eggs. It is also a good result for me to retrieve 8 eggs at a time and all of them are successfully cultivated. We finally chose 2 good grade blastocyst transplants.
Finally it was time to announce the answer. Kun and the reproductive consultant from the medical side took a photo to show me that the two embryos successfully implanted. I was really excited at that moment.
God really favors me. On May 14, 2019, my baby dragon, phoenix, pig, was born, and I was so happy.