Three generations of test tubes save ten years of marriage
Source: Kunhe Assisted Pregnancy Center Number of reads: 12 Release time: 2025-06-28 21:00:39
I just got married and didn’t think much about the child, because we all hoped to pass the two-person world first. At that time, I always felt that infertility was far away from us. After all, both of us are healthy, so how could such a low-probability event happen to us? In 2020, after our 30th birthday, we felt that life was a little empty, probably because we had enough of the two, so we discussed having a child.
Fortunately, I got pregnant within 2 months of pregnancy. I still remember the excitement. However, I don’t seem so lucky. During the blood test, my progesterone was only 11.3. The doctor suggested getting an injection to protect the fetus, otherwise there might be a risk of miscarriage. Because I have always felt that I was in good health, I believe that according to the doctor's advice, the child must have no problems. But the facts proved that I was too confident. After taking the fetal injection for one week, my lower body was still bleeding. I went to the hospital for a follow-up examination. The progesterone did not increase, and the doubled blood HCG was not ideal. I did a B-ultrasound test and did not see the fetal heart. The doctor said that this might be a sign of a threatened miscarriage, so I asked me to make my mental plan. The result was the same as the doctor said, and the child naturally suffered from abortion.
I admit that I was starting to be nervous. Although everyone comforted me and said that this was a natural phenomenon of survival of the fittest, I still felt very uncomfortable. After all, I am here, and I am afraid that it is because of my age, which leads to miscarriage, and I am afraid that I will never be able to conceive a child again. In the past, I probably had too confident in my body, so I never felt that infertility would have something to do with me. Now, although I don’t want to admit it, the fact is that my child has really lost. The doctor said that this situation is normal and I can wait until my body recovers before considering asking for one. And I really believe it...
Half a year later, I got pregnant again. This time I was very careful. Once I was diagnosed with pregnancy, I quickly went to the hospital for examination. But the same was true. The progesterone was low and the HCG was not ideal. I still had the same injection every day. I quit my job and focused on raising the baby at home. However, at 2 months, the embryo was stopped... The doctor asked us to do a comprehensive physical examination. This time the problem was with me. The examination results showed that my chromosome 9 was inverted... I knew the result and completely collapsed! I don't understand why God always teased me, why I gave me hope, and then gave me a fatal blow. During that time, I was like a lunatic, and I didn’t like anything. I lost my temper every day. My husband also didn’t go home for a week because of my emotions... At that time, I thought, maybe he was tired of me! yes! I am tired myself, let alone others!
Later, maybe he felt it was not good to be outside all the time, and on the weekend, he went home again... And after a week of thinking, I realized that if I wanted to continue, this method would definitely not be what the marriage should be. Maybe... I needed to cheer up, so I took the initiative to talk to my husband and proposed the idea of doing test tubes to him. And he also agreed. We made an appointment with the Reproductive Center of Hongfang, Shanghai, and lined up at the entrance of the hospital. There were very many people seeing the doctor. It seemed that everyone saw hope here. Because there was a problem with the chromosome, we made an appointment for three generations of IVF, but the results were not satisfactory. We took 7 eggs and only had a 4aa-level blastocyst that could be transplanted. At first, I thought it would be successful as long as the transplant was used, but later I found that my idea was really naive, and the IVF failed.
Feeding: Not all expectations come true
Three failures made me completely fall into darkness, as if no matter how hard I tried, I would never have the chance to be with my child, and I was gradually disappointed. I don't know which link went wrong, making this originally normal and simple thing so difficult, the pain of abortion and the failure of the test tube made me even start to be afraid of getting pregnant. Mr. Su and I have been married for 10 years, and I have seen him cry three times, all because our children are gone.
It is impossible to describe the mood during that period. Every time I wait for the result with a nervous mood, but every time I ended in failure. Purchase up your broken mood in despair and start over again. It is like a ghost hitting a wall, or like "Horror Cruise", which cannot escape in a vicious cycle. The painful thing in life is not despair, but giving you hope every time and allowing you to make all kinds of efforts, but hope will eventually be extinguished. In order to relieve my pressure, Mr. Su took me to Lijiang, Xiamen, and Taiwan. But reality always jumps out and slaps in the face, making you clear how ridiculous your struggles are. This is like a big stone pressing on your chest all the time. It won’t kill you, but it makes you unable to breathe. It’s not that we have thought of giving up, but we are like gamblers, who have already put too many bets on it and have lost all of them, but it always seems that we can turn the tables in the next move.
On the way back to my hometown, Mr. Su and I said to him: "If you don't have it, just divorce!" "He was silent for a while and said, "Try harder, let's talk about it if you can't." ”Yes, we can't bear to part with each other, but we can't resist the pressure from our family. After a physical examination a few years ago, my ovary condition was not very good. AMH0.05 shows premature aging, which is also the reason why I made up my mind to do test tubes. If you still can't get what you want this time, you will part ways. During the epidemic, my husband and I were also searching for institutions in Shanghai online. Because Shanghai is close to our home and the medical conditions are relatively good, we decided to do IVF in Shanghai. We looked at three companies and also conducted relevant information via phone. They felt that they were all OK. We decided to go to Shanghai for a field trip.
The road to test tubes rekindles hope for fertility
In early March, the nationwide lockdown was lifted. We set out on the road to Shanghai and visited two companies on the spot. We thought this company, Kunhe Life Medical, was more suitable for us, and the staff were also very patient, and the car was picked up and delivered, and the service was very considerate. This time we came to Shanghai, we prepared a lot and brought the hospital's physical examination report. Kunhe Life Medical made an appointment in advance. After reading the report from my husband and I, the doctor told us that the sperm vitality and uterine environment are not bad, and the success rate of IVF is relatively high. During this process, in addition to explaining some of the fees in detail to us, I also patiently answered our questions. Mr. Su and I discussed it and immediately signed a contract with Kunhe Life Medical and paid a deposit, which officially started my journey of test tube.
The hospital introduced by Kunhe Medical is quite efficient. After asking about our requirements for egg girls, we found three suitable ones for us in about a week. We chose one of them that is more suitable for the eyes, 166cm tall, an undergraduate student, double eyelids, whiter skin, and look obedient. After confirming the candidate, I started waiting for the egg donor girl to have her period to start the ovulation induction process. I remember that I had 21 eggs in total. On the day of the egg retrieval, Mr. Su also came to retrieve the sperm. The fertilized egg was in vitro fertilized in the laboratory. The embryo report came out on the third day. The customer service lady told us that there were 13 embryos, and 7 were used after screening, including 3 male babies and 4 female babies. The embryo quality was pretty good, and I had already let go of half of it.
Wait patiently and look forward to blooming a good pregnancy flower
During the preparation period, I have been taking Bujiale conditioning. The medical consultant has always recommended professional pregnancy preparation diet and daily life details. He also conducted B-ultrasound monitoring of the thickness of the endometrium after two or three days. The thickness of the endometrium on the day of the transplant was 8mm. The transplant operation was very fast, and there was no feeling, and it looked like less than ten minutes. After the transplant, I always follow the doctor's instructions, try to relax and rest at home. Now I have passed the first 3 months of danger, and I can see my baby in 4 months. However, given the previous examples of fetal discontinuation, I have never dared to take it lightly. I hope that God can favor my baby this time.
Here I would like to say to those who are still trying to become parents that people are vulnerable and helpless in the face of major diseases that cannot be cured or unknown whether they can be cured. If you want to describe the taste of infertility, it is like two people swimming together in the cold sea to the unknown other shore, not knowing where the other shore is, how far it is, and not even knowing whether the other shore really exists. There are vast cold sea water all around, and the only thing that can help you is each other. The comfort of two people is very important, and it can allow you to snuggle and rest when you are physically and mentally exhausted. Nowadays, the advancement of medicine can deal with most of the infertility. Many of the friends who have performed test tubes have also obtained their own babies as they wish. I hope my experience can help you, I hope to give a reference to my sisters who are in the same situation as me, and I wish you all the best to get a good pregnancy and realize your dreams!
The article was orally written by client Zhang Tingting (pseudonym), and was compiled and compiled by consultants Kun and Yang. Real cases, rigorous reprinting, violators will be prosecuted!